Well if it isn’t big enough for them all, then you’d better call a bigger one, ‘cose that’s just rude. Some people, and critters, are just bigger than others and they shouldn’t be discriminated over that. So there.
And it’s always different when the one putting themselves in danger is yourself and not some one you care about… So… No. Not really different. You both care for each other, so deal with it. 😛